Ayah..ayah pegi mane....

"Ayah..ayah pegi mane..."

apa yang anda lakukan apabila seorang budak berumur 5,6 tahun menanggis mencari ayahnya..
dengan suara hilang harapan.., tangisan yang tidak dilakon kan...hmm... lost dan tiada tempat bergantung

dan anda adalah satu2nya saksi....

(ok guys..ini juz sneak peak...aku sgt bz...nnt aku sambung...hhaha)

Cheer leader effect ~ on wanita cemburukan bidadari syurga?

i juz finished reading an entry kat blog ahmad ray... pasal wanita and bidadari syurga..
and from the reading, i juz can conclude the situation that supposedly...
there`s no anxiety or fear should be amongs by woman...

"Ustaz, boleh tak kalau di syurga nanti, saya tak nak suami saya ada bidadari?"

Soalan ini pernah dikemukakan oleh seorang wanita..manurut entry tu...seorng datin

Datin tersebut wajar diberi ucapan syabas kerana berani menyuarakan apa yang terbuku di kalbu ramai wanita. Tapi pasti kebanyakannya tak tergamak nak luahkan perasaan tu. Yah..so i try to... think... if us man in woman shoes...mesti rasa macam.. " ikut hati..xnk,xsuke...tp..agama ckp mcm tu plak?" so angguk terpaksa..senyum xrela... ^^..

tp...ntah..walau mcmn pun.. wanita xdapat nk mengiyakan sepenuhnya..aku rasa la..maybe, pasal ader...perasaan mudah cemburu tu kot...that`s y they behave like that..., as profound explanation, such reason is... woman always think that his husband is the absolute ownership of wife...!! ^^...klakar kan...

so relate to this...to me, its kinna answered a parts of spoil marriage concept, sebagai mana bila lelaki tidak fahamkan konsep "isteri bukannya hak milik, tapi anugerah" mcm dlm cite CINTA lakonan dato rahim noor eh...ke razali aper ntah haha ...bg aku mcm tu la jugak kot 'absolute ownership' bagi pihak perempuan...

ok berbalik kpada soalan cik..datin...keh3
dijawab oleh ustaz tu dgn... :

"Di syurga nanti, selagi puan tak berenggang dengan suami puan, suami puan seakan-akan tak nampak pun bidadari. Tak perlu lah puan risau sangat. Yang penting sekarang, usahakan agar puan bersama suami dapat menjadi ahli syurga. Kalau isteri terpaksa masuk neraka buat sementara, dan suami yang masuk syurga dulu, saya tak jamin la bidadari tak ganggu dia.."

Hmm..kenapa suami tak nampak bidadari bila isterinya ada? Sebab wanita ahli syurga kelak akan dijadikan oleh Allah sebagai ketua bidadari. Hebatnya kecantikan ketua bidadari ni, adalah ibarat cahaya bulan mengambang penuh di musim panas. Para bidadari yang lain pula ibarat bintang-bintang yang bertaburan di sekelilingnya. Hanya menyerlah tika bulan menyepi.

so bagi wanita, jangan biar bulan menyepi (wahhhh...)...so..adakah masih cemburu...berdasarkan pngalaman..rasanya masih ada...yer la..cemburu wanita jgn diduga dalamnya...haha!!...ok teruskan...

Maka apabila Ketua Bidadari itu hadir, si suami seolah-olah terpukau, dan bidadari yang lain seakan tak kelihatan, ataupun nampak kecil saja. Macam gadis jelita dikelilingi budak-budak tadika. Tentu saja fokus si suami takkan beralih dari melihat isterinya.
Hebat kan? Tapi macam mana kalau tiada bidadari langsung? Kan lagi bagus kalau tiada saingan?

Tidak juga. Haaa..here is the strike...mcm main bowling tuh..!! Klu korang layan citer, How i meet ur mother...bende nie dinamakan Cheerleader effect..plz be clear that..isu sbnarnya bukan pasal persaingan, tp..effect drpd composition dier tu..

Andai tiada bidadari, maka cantiknya Ketua Bidadari umpama bulan penuh di langit yang kosong. Kejelitaannya jadi kurang menyerlah kerana dia cantik sorang-sorang, tak ada siapa yang kurang dari dia, jadi pada siapa dia nak dibandingkan?

^^
so..wahai wanita2...faham x...?
rasanya xperlu mengelabah, risau...cemburu xkena tempat...apa kata kita buka sikit kotak pemikiran kita, detach skit perasaan emosi xbertempat..., dan lihat dengan lebih jelas...

believed me... being cool and calm..result us to a better person..
Wallahualam~
(wah...entry berunsurkan keagamaan yg pertama dr aku..huhu^^~ tp..aku rasa lebih kepada share pendapat..^^)

why malay cant speak english like others...

i keep wondering...why..
i always notice that we dun get talked or have a chat among colleague in English..we still prefer to use our mother language instead...

this issues appeared to be thinking only by this morning..
after finishing the design with no sleep for the whole night,then goes next jogging around 3,4 km juz ryt after solat subuh..., take a bath...clean my self...n...looking for the breakfast..i rather prefer some simple meal..so i juz run into the grocers n find the loaf of bread and the tunas. While i juz queuing at the counter to pay my goods n i am waiting for my turn
..there are 2 Indian women at middle age,i guess...and was cleaner auntie at the residential.

n u know what..the thing that impressed me was the language they used..ENGLISH...can u juz imagine...

a person whose work as a cleaner..maybe don't ever possessed evenly brief education, despite of that..to me..they speak good English..maybe a little up down..frankly..but still they speak english... they dare to!

that situation make me trigger in instant.."wow..why Malay cant do things like this...what is the different"... ^^

Todays is not just another day..

Today is not just another day...
today is different...

the day of usual is a lost...
the day of skeptic means no development...
the day of left leads to the backward...

and i aint any of these today... and it juz because....
today...

i am moving forward...

*lately nie aku sudah tidak banyak bercakap...i am out of word, bgitu juga selera makan..(terlibat ke?)...

well short n sharp..

*owh btw...mama xsuke sy yg xsuke ckp dan kurang ramah dgn orang...haha,
response : abess...dah xtahu nk cakap aper...xkan nk buat2 ramah, senyum n tayang muka jer...xghoti den...!! ^^

The Northern Star...

I set out on a narrow way...many years ago...
Hoping I would find true love, along the broken road
But I got lost a time or two
Wiped my brow and kept pushing through
I couldn't see how every sign pointed straight to you

Every long lost dream lead me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you
...

(God Bless the broken road, Rascal flatts)

suffocated...

Edisi....melarikan diri ke Kuala Kemaman~
as time going as usual,...and at the right moment when the time limits start thinning in the air,due date for the thesis juz in counting and around the corner, and i am continuously also playing my part in this absurd sense. Started my weird habits and way out..
doing something that far from our mind can be think and the risk that cant be paid~


aku menghilangkan diri lagi~ dengan alasan maw mencari kedamaian...
"tired looking at the same colours job, doing the same thing everyday...very monotonous"

so...terus kembali ke KL..huah..KL sungguh panas...,musim kemarau kata mereka...
~ aircond2

Hari bila aku bertindak tanpa rancangan dan berfikir...^^

Saya sangat penat hari nie..saya mau balik rumah...!!!

smalam..tdo..sangat tidak nyenyak..selepas memaksa diri utk tdo..~ akhirnya saya mengaku kalah..dan terus menghidupkan kereta dan terus ke McD..utk menenangkan diri sekitar 4pagi....
infact~ saya sangat lapar,sy cuba untuk tdo dan makan esok siang jer...tp xmampu..siang td tiada masa maw makan akibat jadual yg padat..n when comes to dinner..dinner xkenyang...)xmaw brebut2 ketika makan..~hilang nikmat...why dont we juz..go easy n enjoy the food?

akibat taktikal sy yg mantap utk tidak berebut ketika makan...hasilnyer...saya sgt lapar mlm tu..

xkisah lah...sy bukan jenis yg "TER"lalu teruja dgn makanan~ saya cuma suka menikmati makanan...

minggu depan..tekad...maw menghilangkan diri selama seminggu lah...~ jumpa ayah bonda ^^
suda lama simpan hadiah untuk Abah...

entry hari ini tidak berwarna kerana saya tidak berasa berwarna hari ini...

How life works..?never can conclude..

Before solat maghrib td..i juz blog walking (yeah people calls by that term) but i rather juz call it blog jogging ~ hahaha..crazy me

why?because its more like u do the jogs job..its work more quicker than juz a walk or whole content reading session!!...so i called it jog..haha^^..(owh what i am saying here....haha)

so...i juz read in someone blog entries regarding 'knowing U..the description on her side n bla bla bla...'

this been quoted from her blog ~
'is it true that u have to know sum1 to love sum1.....
or is it your first instinct about that sum1 that makes u fall in love....'

woww..this is the tricky part...we need to be absolute n clear, we talk in realistic way...

1st phrase... yes its true
2nd phrase... indeed..that 1 also true..

why i say this 1 xtually tricky..lets be precise..

sometimes..when u meet someones...or even juz have a glance at her/him..u feel like your both puzzle`s suppose to cross somehow..u believe that way.. and yet..its true and no wronged in that.. whose know? its about future we talk ryt...

yet to be realistic n safe...we do practiced the 1st phrase word..
u have to know sum1 to love sum1.....

so lets jump to years forward... u freely able to choose the start of yours...1st phrase or 2nd phrase...because we know..who else could ever possibly shaped our future if its not u...me..ourselves. ..

owh this entry remind me to the concept that i hold onto~ the road not taken

owh...ok ok...now..lets jump...
lets say that u possibly have a happy day..and that would be greatly fine...or maybe worse ever..the moment ones u regret it..sure u`ll look into these day n say...only if u look in different perspective..only if i choose the other road....

but that`s if....well what ever comes..
the only thing that i can conclude is...that is how life works..sure Allah ada perancangan yang lebih baik..our part in this play is only do the things we felt right to heart and seek for the guidance of the mighty Allah...that sounds better

well..its hard to juz conclude..what`s the right decision we suppose to take..,but personally.. to be fair and positive..what ever comes tomorrow..i take that as my fate and destiny in fact i will drive it positively n lead for a betterment of other tomorrow...^^ hee