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Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Andartu ~ lelaki dan corak pemikiran masyarakat kita

worlds today..describing complete of life and love by a single word...

Married..


wow..judgement yang menakutkan
so..basically from the situation,we comprehend that its lead to 2 group as conclusion,which is.. married and not married

so nk senangkan cite la..1 group kita da tolak tepi..dgn anggapan happily ever after lah lepas married..
at least half of the life 'procedure' has been gone thru..
then the other group lah yg left... Not Married

kalau perempuan xkahwin hingga mencecah certain age,lama2 kita panggil andartu.klu lelaki..?
Apabila bercerita mengenai wanita dan andartu..
the main concern is how they afraid of the number of the rolling age..

so isu disini...kalau lelaki..?
does they get affected dengan umur dan istilah yg seerti dengan andartu...sebagaimana org perempuan, jarang masyarakat kita concern kan bende2 camni...very typical and skeptical..malaysian

From personal opinion...rasanya lelaki mcm xkisah je kot, not get affected...
but..some times, kalau mcm cube utk jujur dengan diri sendiri...
its about life that you cannot lie..
for sure you`ll start to ask urself...
how you want to lead your life, where do you want to go..
where do you see urself..5yrs times from now,10 yrs from now...
then..thinking of this..'mcm xde effect tu' maybe akan start nk hilang...start goyang la dlm bahasa pasar..we analyse either what we stand for before this might wronged or still right as usual...n here..we man we start to concern...

hmmm...rasionalnyer mcmtulah...
tp..utk yg jenis keringgg jer..xkisah,xde masalah..layannn n blasah jer tu camne....aper yg derang fikir,aper yg derang rasa yer....?? query2?

hmm..look for the world today..secara lahirnya...lelaki maybe nampak xkisah kot..., they spare..go for the career at the first place and claimed that the relation might come later when the times is appropriate...

seriously..i cant figure out,the level of feelings from those 'andartu/terutu' title cursed that posibbly has the same effect on guys.xfaham lg la....
lelaki ader x..yg tertekan dgn usia dan title 'terutu', as camne perempuan start tertekan apabila berusia 27...contohnya dan gelaran yg being curse in our Malay tradition tu...

^^ v said Lol: when Malaysian people will starts for not being typical thinker??

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